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bug's avatar

not admitting our inconsistencies is a shortcut that only hurts to our communities to much we owe. your piece is so beautiful and reminding me that our perfectionism is costly, we can't afford to dismiss a writer and moral responsibilities that you illustrated. human life is too invaluable to not be sharp-tongued. thank youuu!💌

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labeeba 🍵🍓💌✨'s avatar

this truly is one of best things i’ve ever read

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amaani's avatar

my fellow somali princess❤️ so proud of you and the way you’ve explained things! we need more somalis like you.

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alwa's avatar

in a chaotic world, you’re really a breath of fresh air. “o captain! my captain”

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kanza's avatar

i dont have the right words to describe how this made me feel. god.

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livs's avatar

incredibly wonderful read, ayan <33. i'm by no means a writer, but i do dabble in design and you've perfectly encapsulated the sentiments that myself- and so many other fellow womxn creatives, queer creatives, creatives of the global majority- wrestle with on the daily when it comes to our craft and the audiences we share our thoughts with.

i know elsewhere on this site you've called yourself a "professional party pooper", a hater by trade. but if it's anything, the dominant sentiment that i feel when i read your work is love. even the most biting of your essays are grounded in a deep love for your art, for your people, for those who've had their voices silenced and bodies policed by the same oppressors who now try to profit off a cheap facsimile of their labor. i feel the love in the recommendations you list and in the way you interact with the space you've built here. you write in this piece, "we must’’t abandon them even if we don’t get love in return. that is what it means to be in community"- but trust that the love and loyalty you're projecting isn't unrequited. i'm just a college student on the other side of the atlantic, but your words have reached me and inspired me to be more curious with the media i consume, more outspoken in my classroom lectures, and more confident in the opinions i hold- and i'm sure there's countless others on here who feel the same way. so thank you again for sharing your words and your love and your thoughts with us. i'm grateful i found this page and grateful to be in community with you <33

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David's avatar

Jesus Christ. I don’t even know what to say.

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Yaz's avatar

💝💝💝💝

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